Tommy Dorfman attends the Vanity Fair Oscar Party 2020 hosted by Radhika Jones at the Wallis Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts on February 9, 2020 in Beverly Hills, California.
Tommy Dorfman, star of 13 reasons why revealed that she is a transgender woman in an interview with Time today (July 22).
Tommy told the publication, “For a year now, I have personally identified and lived as a woman – a transgender woman. It’s funny to think about coming out, because I haven’t gone anywhere yet. I view today as a reintroduction of me as a woman who has made a medical transformation. “
She went on to say that her name won’t change, “It’s always been seen as such a big reveal, but I never don’t go out. Today is about clarity: I am a transgender woman. My pronoun is her/her. My name is Tommy. “
“I was named after my mother’s brother, who passed away a month after I was born, and I feel very attached to that name, to an uncle who hugged me as he was dying, ” she explained. “This is an evolution of Tommy. I became more like Tommy… I really am myself. “
Apparently, fans have been speculating about Tommy’s gender identity for about a year, amid the change in her style and looks in her Instagram posts. By going public about his identity, Tommy says it’s a way to get the story back on his own.
“I lived in a different version of going out where I didn’t feel safe enough to talk about it, so I just did it. But I do admit that the transition is beautiful. Why not let the world see what it looks like? ” she speaks. “So I kept on Instagram, instead, a glass-shaped time capsule – a capsule that shows a living body in a more flexible space.”
“However, as a person facing the public, my refusal to clarify could deprive me of my freedom to control my own story,” the 29-year-old continued. “With this medical transition, there’s been talk about my body, and it’s starting to feel overwhelming.”
“One doesn’t necessarily have to make a medical transition to be transgender, but for me, it’s a proactive choice. I’m connecting my body with my soul,” says Tommy. “However, as a result of that, I’m losing something. I have to think about the fact that I brought a lot of people and things that probably wouldn’t be there for this part of my journey. “
When it comes to his career, Tommy admits that “my personal and professional transitions cannot be separated, because my body and my face are tied to my career”.
“I am most recognized for playing a lame gay poet in a soap opera, and I fear that if I actively transform my personal life, I will lose whatever career I have. supposed to have,” she said of hers 13 reasons why character, Ryan Shaver. “But I’m no longer interested in playing male characters – except maybe in a ‘Cate Blanchett way as Bob Dylan’ way. Sometimes you just have to say, ‘No, this is just who I am.’ “
Looking ahead professionally, Tommy says she’s “thinking about how I can infuse my transgender body into film and television.” The actress will appear in Lena Dunham’s upcoming film, Timbre, ended filming earlier this year. The project is Tommy’s “first daughter role”, an experience she calls “very enjoyable and worthwhile”.
As he moved forward in this new phase of his life, Tommy said, “All I can do now is look forward to a future where I am, hopefully, completely honest. That is the person I am becoming.”
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