Rebel Wilson’s decision to announce her relationship with a woman wasn’t entirely her decision, the Australian actress confirmed on Sunday.
Wilson made her romance with fashion and jewelry designer Ramona Agruma official on Instagram Thursday, writing, “I thought I was looking for a Disney prince…but maybe what I really needed all along was a Disney princess.” ” .”
The couple appeared at vanity fair‘s shared Oscars afterparty and Agruma had become a staple on Wilson’s Instagram page in recent months, but the star had never commented on their relationship.
Some fans then asked: why now? As it turns out, the Sydney Morning Herald is guilty.
On Saturday the herald published a column by social scene writer Andrew Hornery, in which he revealed that the newspaper had intended to cover the news of Wilson’s relationship. Calling it a “discreet, genuine and honest” journalistic endeavor, Hornery wrote that it was out of an alleged “excess of caution and respect” that the herald had given Wilson two days to comment.
“Big mistake,” wrote the columnist. “Wilson chose to look at history.”
The 42-year-old actress apparently confirmed this on Sunday herald‘s account and said on Twitter that “it was a difficult situation” but that she was “trying to handle it with grace”.
Activists and allies have frequently suggested that it is inappropriate to pressure someone to speak out about their sexuality, saying it should be a person’s choice when and how to come out as anything other than straight.
A firestorm of social media criticism was aimed at the herald and Horny, who wrote in his column: “[o]Of course, who anyone is dating is their business,” only to wave that sentiment away by accusing Wilson of being “happy [having] nurtured such a lustful interest when she had a handsome boyfriend on her arm.”
“It is unlikely that she would have experienced the kind of discrimination, let alone homophobia – unconscious or overt – that unfortunately still affects so many gay, lesbian and non-straight people,” he argued later in the article.
That herald has since doubled, with editor Bevan Shields publishing another column defending the paper’s actions on Sunday. “We would have asked the same questions if Wilson’s new partner had been a man,” he wrote. “To say that the herald ‘outed’ Wilson is wrong.”
“Like other mastheads do every day, we just asked questions and defaulted to a deadline for an answer,” Shields continued. “I hadn’t made a decision about whether or what to publish, and this Heralds The decision as to what to do would have been informed by any response Wilson provided. Wilson made the decision to publicly announce her new partner — who has been a feature of her social media accounts for months.”
Wilson had previously spoken out about their new relationship — without identifying Agruma or revealing details about her own sexuality persons in May. Speaking to the magazine that she’d started dating someone else after swearing off dating apps, Wilson said, “We talked on the phone for weeks before we met. And that was a really good way to get to know each other. It was a bit dated in that sense – very romantic.”
https://www.thedailybeast.com/rebel-wilson-responds-to-sydney-morning-herald-admitting-it-almost-outed-her-relationship-with-ramona-agruma?source=articles&via=rss Rebel Wilson responds to Sydney Morning Herald and admits it almost trumped her relationship with Ramona Agruma