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Demi Lovato is leaving “California Sober” in the background. In a simple Instagram story post on December 2, the singer announced, “I’m no longer advocating my ‘California sober’ ways.” They added, “Sober is the only way best to be.”
The surprise announcement comes a day after Lovato celebrated the birthday of their friend, Tommy Trussell III, who passed away in October 2019 after battling addiction. Just a few months ago they also released a New song dedicated to Trussell called “Unfornough (Tommy’s Song),” with proceeds going to The Voices Project, a self-described “grassroots rehabilitation advocacy organization”.
Lovato received a lot of criticism in March after they declared themselves “sober California,” a term that essentially means they have quit drugs, but will indulge in drinking and weeding. insofar. “I’ve learned it doesn’t work to say I’ll never do this again,” they said in part of Dance with the devil archives. “I know I’m done with stuff that’s going to kill me, right?” Lovato talked about the experience. After six years of sobriety – for them that means living with a coach of constant sobriety and moderation, as described in the docs – very public relapse in 2018 lead to almost their overdose.
At the time, Lovato, who has been open about their struggles with addiction and mental health issues since they rehab in 2010, added that they know the “sober California” lifestyle. “Not for everyone. “Recovery is not a one-size-fits-all solution. You shouldn’t be forced to stay awake if you’re not ready. You should not be too sober for other people. You have to do it for yourself,” they say in the documentary, which also includes an interview by Elton John saying he doesn’t believe it. Their public embrace of “sober California” received a lot of backlash in the press, including from fellow celebrities in recovery. Vanderpump’s Rule star Lala Kent even called it “super offensive.”
After negative feedback, Lovato said that they “probably never will” go into detail about their recovery again. “When I dig into details with people, it’s like helping me take a closer look at what I need,” they said in an interview with Zach Sang while discussing the song “California Sober” “. The singer continued, “The only criticism I need is my treatment team, and if what we’re doing right now is working for me, I’ll keep it between me and them.”
https://www.thecut.com/2021/12/demi-lovato-says-they-are-no-longer-california-sober.html Demi Lovato Says They Are No More ‘Sober California’