The partner who may be dropping his job can be the one who appears to be preserving his composure.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/life-style/2021/08/16/carolyn-hax-husband-lose-job-stress-how-to-support/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=wp_lifestyle | Carolyn Hax: Spouses stare down a job loss with mismatched ranges of dread