Carolyn Hax: Mother-in-law’s lack of boundaries is ‘overwhelming’

Dear Carolyn: My mother-in-law is an incredibly generous person and I love her, but she has been under pressure so far. She lives within walking distance of us, and until the pandemic hit, this was never an issue, because she had a lot of family and a lot of friends. Now, because of the pandemic, she has to be careful and her world has shrunk. While we were working, she showed up and demanded to clean our house, which sounds great but is extremely annoying to me. Especially when she makes our beds or does things like yelling at my husband for leaving a mess in the bathroom.