Carolyn Hax: If you have to try to be a good person, does that mean you’re not one?

Is that a sign of a bad person if no one ever says, “She doesn’t have an ugly bone in her body”?
https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2021/11/19/carolyn-hax-bad-person-try-to-be-good/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=wp_lifestyle Carolyn Hax: If you have to try to be a good person, does that mean you’re not one?