Ask Amy: As 70-something husband chases teen, wife gears up for divorce

I don’t counsel that you simply have interaction in a protracted, nasty and costly courtroom battle — however I do counsel that you simply discover a competent and assertive lawyer who will do some forensic accounting and dig into your marital funds as rapidly as potential, and start the method of verifying and dividing them — earlier than your husband has had the possibility to cover, spend or waste joint belongings on this new relationship.